HeatherO was telling us:
HeatherO nous racontait que :
Jean-Guy, thanks for your contructive comments. I'm glad it made you
feel better to attack me with comments like "is english my mother
tongue". I have no use for this kind of help. I believe someone
once said "there are no dumb questions". However I am obviously at
the wrong place for that.
Heather
Sorry you took it the wrong way. How/where did you get the impression It
made me feel better to write what I did? Believe me, if I felt I needed to
relieve myself in some way, I would have been way more aggressive and would
not have even tried to help. In fact, my whole post was about helping. I
tried to show you why it is important to consider your reader in a forum
such as this one, and then tried to provide help regarding your problem.
I tried to be constructive, no just negative. I did not assume anything
about your mother tongue. Read my post again. I did write that it may have
been one way or the other. I did not imply that it was, but tried to attack
you by writing that it may not have been, thus belittling you. In these
newsgroups we get people from all over the world, and they often use aliases
so we cannot trust the name alone, and for a lot of them English is a second
language (as it is for me), so it is not uncalled for to question whether
English is your mother tongue or not. Also, since you posted from a web
interface, I could not infer where you were from.
I did the best I could. I tried to show you why I thought what I wrote by
commenting directly from what you wrote, not what I thought you meant or
what I thought it was worth. The only time I wrote about what I thought what
your post meant was when I was actually trying to really help you with your
problem by restating your case in my own words, hoping you would confirm if
I got it right or not.
So, I am sorry you did not like my comments regarding your writing style,
but what I wrote remains true. What you wrote was difficult to follow and
made it more difficult to help you. I hope you read the whole post because I
did not just "attack" you as you seem to be thinking I did.
I did provide help and code sample and never inferred that your question was
too dumb to be asked. Please, show me where I wrote that your question was
dumb, and so was not worthy of my time (which is what I think you were
inferring when you wrote " I am obviously at the wrong place for that").
Finally, I do not understand why you took offence at such a realistic
question given the nature of the medium through which we communicate, but
did not find the following comment offensive at all, considering the way you
reacted to my post, you should have reacted in a similar way to this one as
well (Note that I am in no way commenting on the
value/worthiness/quality/nature of the text I am quoting):
<quote>
If you leapt in and starting writing code with an objective as ill-defined
as the spiel you posted, then it's no wonder you and the client are at odds:
you're not clear on where you want to end up; they're not clear on what
<end quote>
You in fact praised it:
<quote>
Thanks for the constructive comments. I'll try to focus and it a little
better.
<end quote>
If you want to keep on writing in a way that makes it very difficult to
understand what it is you mean, you are right, you do not need help such as
the kind of help I tried to provide.
Should you need more help regarding coding, I will be happy to oblige, but
since you do not like comments about your writing style, I will disregard
this aspect of your posts and hopefully be able to provide the actual help
you need.
Good luck to you and your project.
--
Salut!
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Jean-Guy Marcil - Word MVP
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Word MVP site:
http://www.word.mvps.org