BCM data tranfere for remote server and website backend

[BCM AND OFFICE ACCOUNTING 2008]

Hi to all i am very new to all this so please excuse the 'learner driver'
knowlege ... Let me just give an outline of what i am trying to do and see if
anybody can help ... I am currently trying to set up a mail order website
....it is and .asp site and i am using msql database to drive the backend .. i
hope to plug in BCM and Office Account pro 2008 via backend for data
transfere ... what i can gather so far is that you can import the data into
BCM in several ways but this will either copy over or duplicate this info...
the only way i can see of simpley updating the changes or applying the new
data is to import it as a .bcm file ... my web developer can create a backend
database with all the relivant info we require to put into BCM but he cant
change the file format into .bcm file ... if we can do this then we can
import all the changes into BCM on a daily update ... i beleive BCM database
is just a msql database but renamed is that true ... as we are using all
microsoft programs there must be a way of doing this ... can anyone help ...
regards chris