I think you're missing the point, there is no streaming for any of these
tools period. It's not a function of HTML, the browser, or tools such as FP
or Dreamweaver, it's a function of the file format used. For example: AVI is
not a streaming file format, WMA and WMV, and .RA (I forget the actual real
audio file extension) are.
To get true streaming you need a streaming media server. Microsoft has
streaming services available for Windows 2003 Server. RealNetworks also has
their own streaming server as well. You can get most of what you'll want
though with just the standard streaming file such as stop, play, pause.
Usually functions such as fast forward and chapters need a fully functional
streaming media server to implement though.
If you want the file to play, just link to it as opposed to embedding it.
Linking to it just like a web page will cause the browser to determine what
the appropriate player type is and launch it.