The nav bar wizard is a tricky creature and it's mood differs by Pub
version. In a perfect world if you checked the box in the page properties
the wizard would pick it up and add the link to the menu. And same thing in
reverse, if you uncheck a box the wizard would drop it. I have an article on
it at
http://www.publishermvps.com/Default.aspx?tabid=90
If you are having an issue with it the best thing to do is to build a new
one, by going thru and unchecking each page in it's properties and then
deleting the menu object off each page. Then go the design gallery and add a
new menu object and then go thru the pages again, this time checking all
them in the page properties.
David Bartosik - [MSFT MVP]
http://www.publishermvps.com
http://www.davidbartosik.com