Word add-in and Outlook

[Jim]

I wrote a Word Add-in which shows up in the edit message of Outlook when
using Word as my email editor
1) how can I prevent this from happening so my toolbar form word does
not show up in outlook
2) Now that outlook has started winword.exe when I edit a message, by
OnConnection() method in Connect.cs is not being called and so when I
now start-up word, the toolbar does not show up. SO I have to kill all
winword.exe processes and then start word again. This happens b/c I am
using word as my outlook email editor. Any ideas?

Thanks